If you truly want to improve your relationship with your man, you should not try to change him. Instead you should start with something that is in your power. You can change and improve yourself, but there is very little hope of changing someone else just because you want them to. Here are some tips on how you could improve relationship with your man.
1. Analyze what irritates him and amend it
You should find out what irritates him in your relationship. There are some things we women do that drive men crazy. He might think you talk too much on the phone or you nag him about unnecessary stuff. Find out the causes and think of what you can do to fix them up.
2. Have patience
Most men do not like to talk things over the phone. On the other hand, women get quite emotional about few things. You can hardly contain your joy till he comes back home at night or meets you on a date. You might want to share your joy right then and there. However, most men do not share such enthusiasm. Your man may simply hate this behavior of yours. This may lead to you both getting upset and frustrated. So have some patience and have face-to-face conversations rather than conversing on the telephone.
3. Build up your self-confidence
If you are someone who has difficulty in making up your mind, you should overcome this problem. It’s not wise to be unsure about everything in life. Your man wants a confident woman who can take care of herself. You should try and develop your self-confidence.
4. Stop nagging
Stop trying to change him as men do not like whining. Yes, there might be a few not-so-good traits in your man, but deal with it seriously and not by nagging on and on about it. This will make no difference to him and instead he will dislike your whining. Cut that out and you’ll see a positive change in your relationship.
5. Let your eyes do the talking
Spend sometime looking into each others eyes. Believe us, this works. Don’t utter a word and let the silence wash over you. Some things are too dear to be expressed in words.
Fixing relationship issues is not a Herculean task but patience is the key. Follow the aforesaid tips and you’re good to go.
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